In recent weeks, leaders like Narayana Murthy (hard work), Upasana Konidela (freezing eggs), and Sridhar Vembu (marry in twenties) shared personal views based on their experiences.

These are not mandates. They are perspectives shaped by decades of experience. Yet each comment triggered criticism, trolling, and panel discussions. A simple viewpoint quickly became a national debate.

What Murthy says may resonate with some entrepreneur; What Upasana says may help someone who wants control over life choices; What Vembu says may fit those who prefer early stability; And for many, none of these may be relevant. There is no universal timeline for work, marriage, health, or ambition. Advice is a perspective, and it is optional.

The mature response

A healthier way to consume public advice is simple:

• Listen with an open mind
• Check if it aligns with your goals
• Take what helps you
• Agree to disagree without reaction or outrage

My view

I believe advice should be consumed with clarity and calmness.
Leaders share their learning & We should choose what fits our own journey.

Listen. Think. Choose. Move on. It is the simplest and most effective way to deal with public opinions.